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"@Gingeralestar on Twitter"
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I am too lazy to change the heading, but I am not coming back to this account. Check me out at this account: SHPF!!
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I miss you as well!
Did I not share the link to my new account with you??
I am so sorry! D':
I have been scattered brain a lot lately. My whole life has spun upside down. T-T
Here is my new account though!
gingerages.deviantart.com
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Probably not cause I only came back from hiatus a couple months ago, so I probably missed it. :/
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Actually, I think I was about to share it on this account, but then didn't because it was a really sad post that I made and I didn't want that to be the last thing on this account.
When I announced it, I was also going to explain my whole situation, but again, it was so sad. :C
I didn't want to make everyone feel sad.
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Oh, that would make sense.
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Yeah, it has been a rough year. OTL
My Dad passed away and I suddenly was forced into the adult world.
It is a scary world out there. ;A;
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Aww, I'm so sorry to hear that. ;w; *hugs forever.*
That really stinks. I know how that feels to lose a father. My grandpa, who raised me since I was 2, when he passed away I was so upset and couldn't function.
Then I saw my husband go through it when his father passed away, so I can totally relate to how you must have felt, heck still feel.
And yes, becoming an adult isn't all sunshine and rainbows, you get to do what you want kinda deal that we think it's like when we're kids.
I hope everything is at least better now for you and that your family is functioning well.
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-hugs back-
Thank you Mir.
It has been a rough time. My mother passed away in 2004 and now 11 years later, I lose my father.
Thankfully, I am staying with my sister.
My family is holding up. There is 11 of us and we all plan to stick together.
It just really sucks. :C
I am so sorry for both of your loses as well.
Losing someone is the worst.
Like I am still kind of in the denial stage.
Since I am at college, I can kind of push it off, but I know when I have to go home for the holidays, that is when it is really going to hit me.
Christmas is going to suck. OTL
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You're welcome, always. <3
Oh wow, that is rough. You can't be that old either and to lose them both so young, that's painful. I luckily still have my grandma and Zai has his mom, but I dunno what I'd do if I lost my grandma, I mean I know it'll happen eventually, but you can never be prepared for this stuff. I know it'll hurt, but you have to overcome these things and move on. It's hard to forget the pain and it'll never be the same without them, but knowing that they raised you and brought you into this world, they're never truly gone. As corny as it sounds, they live in you. All the memories you've shared with them, you can relive them, tell them to others, make people remember them and then they're always there.
From what I can tell, they've raised a wonderful young lady and I'm sure they want you to be happy and not dwell on the pain. Gosh, just typing this out is making me feel a twinge of pain, thinking about my grandpa, but I think about all the time I spent with him and remember him. That's all you can do, remember your mom and dad and don't let their memories fade.
I'm glad your family is being supportive and sticking together. It makes the passing of a loved one a bit easier when you have people to comfort you.
And yeah, holidays do suck when you're missing someone who is gone, but instead of being sad and wishing they were there, remember them and don't be afraid to talk about them if you need to. Bring up a past holiday that you remember, like say when mom burnt the turkey, or dad broke your mom's favorite dish and laugh about it. They say laughter is the best medicine and when it comes to getting over that type of loss, it helps.
It's okay to cry if you need to, just don't hold it in and let it build up. Let it out, talk to one of your siblings or another family member or even a friend. I might not have known your parents or even know you personally, but I'm always here to listen and try to comfort you the best I can. If I could hug you physically, I would. You're a good friend of mine and I don't wanna see you upset or sad.
It'll be rough, but you'll make it through this. ^^
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I am not very old. XD I am only 23 years old. My mom passed when I was 12.
Exactly. This is my slogan for the year. "Be prepared to not be prepared no matter how prepared you are."
I knew that my Dad would eventually pass away, but I thought it wouldn't be at least another 30-40 years. (He was only in his 50s).
All I know after this experience is that I never want to have kids.
I will be the cool aunt who takes care of everyone else's kids. |D
Sadly, I don't know if you ever fully overcome someone's death, but you do learn that life keeps moving even if you don't so you learn to keep going.
I know my Mom and Dad are finally together again and that makes me really happy.
That is the best thing out of this whole mess. I know my Dad missed my Mom so so much.
And I will never forget either of them. I will do my best to live my life to honor them, but to also honor myself.
I will remember what they taught me and use it to remember them and to help me through this life.
I will always miss them and I know I will never stop missing them, but I also got to keep going.
There are a lot of people who count on me and I have a lot I still want to see in this world.
I just need to get through this mourning period.
Like I feel like I am okay, but I have been doing bad in school and distracted myself a lot from everything.
That is how I know I still not over the mourning period.
I see photos of my Dad and it hurts a lot.
I recently realized I can't go home anymore and that hurts.
It is just going to be a lot of pain right now, but I will keep going and the pain will dull.
I am really glad I have my family to help me and I do need to learn to open up more.
It is hard for me though. Like even at the funeral, I was laughing or smiling and people looked at me like
"What the hell is wrong with you??
Why are you not breaking down into tears?"
And I said with a smile on my face
"I am not okay. I don't know why I am smiling. I guess because if I wasn't, I would be crying."
I don't know how many times I said that at the funeral.
The only time I can cry is when I am alone because I can finally reflect on everything.
That is probably why I can type my sadness to people online. Because I am still technically alone and can get my thoughts together.
When others are around, I just want to comfort them and help them anyway I can.
Thank you for telling me it is okay to cry. I really need to hear that.
Thank you so much Mir. If I could hug you right now, I would as well.
Thank you for listening and letting me tell you all this.
Again, it really does help me since I can't figure out how to do this in person with people.
It is going to be a rough time, but you are right. This time will pass and I will grow stronger.
I will go out and see the world and always remember my parents who love me so much. ;u;
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Yeah, you're younger than me, not by much. I'm 27 myself and I only lost my grandpa a few years ago and Zai lost his dad not too long after we got together and it's almost been 7 years now, so he was young to when he lost his dad.
And that is a very good motto to live by. No one is ever prepared for these things, no matter how strong they are or whatever kinda front they put up, you're never truly ready. Ever.
The fact you're look so positive on this shows that you're coping well. You're honestly being very mature about all this and not letting it bring you down. Which I'm sure your parents are proud of. They wouldn't want you to be sad.
One day, you'll get to see your parents again, it may be many, many years from now, when you're old and gray, but they'll be waiting on their daughter, smiling and holding their hands out to you to welcome you back home.
You are so right though, if you aren't laughing you would be crying. I wish I was that strong, I was hysterical when my grandpa died. I cried so hard and was a horrible mess. It hurt so bad to see him like that and when they gave him the 21 gun salute for his service in the military, I literally screamed out and cried like a huge baby. Cause with each of those shots, I knew that it was final, I'd never see him alive again.
I know I'll see him again, but it hurts cause I wanna see him now.
Ever since though, I have dreams about him and he's fine and well. It's silly dreams like I'll be home on my couch and there he is, sitting beside me just talking to me like he always would while we watched a movie together. Or he'll be knocking on my door to come visit.
As silly as it sounds, I feel that this is his way of visiting me, in my dreams. To tell me he's fine and not to worry. Heck, I've had dreams about Zai's dad, just the way I remembered him and he's talking to me about his son.
When you have these dreams, or at least for me, it comforts me so much. It helps ease the pain. But, all people are different and it could just upset you more, but I hope it brings you some peace.
You're welcome and know, I will always be here for you. I may be far away, but just know I'm just a message away if you need me.
Sounds like a wonderful plan, I'm sure that will make them happy, just to have you remember that they loved you and that you are growing up into a wonderful lady.
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Don't worry, I am coming back, but on a new account.
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Will you be posting your new account so we can follow you? o:
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I will be when I finish setting it up.
If you want access to it now, I can send you a link to it. C:
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Here is my new account!
gingerages.deviantart.com
It is a bit boring at the moment. XD
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Thank you very much!
That is very kind of you to say! <3
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I have been a loser who has been away from DA for a long time.
How have you been???
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PATTTY!!! 
I've been meh, but things are starting to get a lot better, which I'm grateful for. ^^
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Awww! I missed you as well!!!
The meh feel is the worst. D8. I am glad to hear you are starting to feel better though. C:
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Why on earth did you leave in the first place? ;.;
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Well.....
It is a long story. ><
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You know I don't mind long stories.
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Would it be alright if I send you a note about it?
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That would be perfectly fine.
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Thanks for the favourite SHPF!
(Sorry for the lateness of appreciation!)
Also how've you been doing?
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You're welcome!!!
(Don't worry, I have been away for months.)
I have been doing alright. I took a break from DA for a few months, but I am coming back on a new account.
How are you doing?
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(Pff I'm just awful at keeping up with messages!)
Mmm - I take breaks from time to time to.
Fairly alright, nearly only doing traditional art these days - which I never go to the trouble of uploading xD
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heyy i was just wondering if you ever got the other headshot icon for me done?
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Hey, here is the other icon. sta.sh/05gc6amht88
For the beach cat you made me, you can sell it or keep it.
I don't really go on DA anymore so I won't really use it.
I am sorry.
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thank you!! i love a lot aa
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You're welcome and I am glad you do!
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I have been alright. I have been away from DA for a few months and now will be returning on a new account.
How have you been?
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oooo you are why to a new account?
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I just felt it was time to switch accounts. ><
I have had this one for a really long time.
I wanted to update this one, but I felt it would be too much work so instead, I decided to start over.
I can send you the account if you send me a note.
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Tag a quality deviant, You’re it! Quality doesn't mean that you have a lot of followers, or a lot of messages. It means that you’re nice to other people, and you deserve to be happy. If you get this message, someone is telling you that they love you as you are, and they don’t care how much followers you have. Send this to 10 deviants who deserve it. If you break the chain, nothing will happen. But it’s just good to let someone know that you love them!<3
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Thank you so much! ;u; <3
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Thank you so much! ;u;
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no prob bob! hope you have a nice birthday!
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