Mondlichtvogel In reply to Amaluuk [2015-04-12 19:41:23 +0000 UTC]

Sehr gern geschehen! Wenn du mal wieder Lust hast, einen weiteren Comic zu machen --

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Amaluuk In reply to Mondlichtvogel [2015-04-18 19:46:53 +0000 UTC]

Kommt bestimmt noch xD

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to Falkras [2015-04-12 19:40:17 +0000 UTC]

You're welcome, dear! Keep up the good work!

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to arsauron [2015-04-06 19:43:13 +0000 UTC]

You're welcome! Keep up the good work!

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to meitanei [2015-04-06 16:54:00 +0000 UTC]

You are welcome, dear!

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to ChxNugg91 [2015-01-07 21:59:49 +0000 UTC]

Thank you and you as well!

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to Yumibren [2014-07-27 22:44:43 +0000 UTC]

Aww, thank you for your nice words and the Llama! I really like your art, please keep up the good work.

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to MarsieSinclaire [2014-07-27 17:41:15 +0000 UTC]

Thank you for your nice words. And sure, why not?

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MarsieSinclaire In reply to Mondlichtvogel [2014-07-28 08:52:03 +0000 UTC]

Oh yay! My skype contact is Marsie "Elvenheart" Sinclair^^ Can't wait to chat with you, friend^^

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to MarsieSinclaire [2014-08-17 16:31:15 +0000 UTC]

Oh dear, I do not have skype; if you wish to contact me, just write me a note, okay?

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MarsieSinclaire In reply to Mondlichtvogel [2014-08-17 18:00:45 +0000 UTC]

Of course^^ Cn't wait to^^

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to Dkalban [2014-07-27 17:37:05 +0000 UTC]

You're very welcome!

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to magicdrusilla [2014-03-23 21:10:54 +0000 UTC]

Gerne, gerne! Hat mir auch sehr gefallen, dein Beitrag!

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magicdrusilla In reply to Mondlichtvogel [2014-03-23 21:32:35 +0000 UTC]

:huggle;

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to Hatsubloo [2014-03-09 13:57:37 +0000 UTC]

And hello back, dear!

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Hatsubloo In reply to Mondlichtvogel [2014-03-12 00:49:38 +0000 UTC]

How you doing my friend!

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to Hatsubloo [2014-03-18 21:52:07 +0000 UTC]

I'm fine, thanks! My vacation startet on Monday and I'm loving every minute of it! I hope you're doing fine as well?

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Hatsubloo In reply to Mondlichtvogel [2014-03-18 22:24:53 +0000 UTC]

Yeah, I'm good It's nice and hot over here.

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to Hatsubloo [2014-03-21 11:49:27 +0000 UTC]

It's hot? In March? Damn, I really wish I could visit you - it's still cold and rainy here in Germany...

Can you enjoy the sun and the heat or do you have to work / go to school?

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Hatsubloo In reply to Mondlichtvogel [2014-03-21 14:23:44 +0000 UTC]

Eh, it mixes at times. Like a few days it's hot, and then it rains, then it's breezy and cold. But, we are in spring, so it's a little bit hot now. Out weather is weird sometimes

I actually can't enjoy the heat as everyone else. I've been avoiding school for the past few months, and have been staying home; it's kinda nice, but a little boring at times, but I still try to avoid the sun. I don't mind hanging out outside for a little bit, but I can't stay in the sunlight too long, cuz I'm worried about my skin.....And no, don't suspect me to be a vampire I just have skin problems. I don't even know what's wrong with me. I have to wear clothes that cover most of my body, in the sun. Ain't that silly LOL

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to Hatsubloo [2014-03-23 14:09:00 +0000 UTC]

Oh, did you see a doctor about this yet? You shouldn't risk anything with your skin (or unknown skin-deseases) - for some illnesses it is crucial to start treatment as soon as you can... But I don't mean to unsettle you, perhaps your skin is just a bit sensitive with sun. Are you "fair-skinned" with light hair and eyes? Then it is a good idea to protect yourself from the sun - otherwise you risk sunburn and rise the danger of getting skin-cancer...

Also, how do you avoid school? Aren't you worried that you miss out on school-stuff, I mean getting together with friends and missing too much things you should learn?

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Hatsubloo In reply to Mondlichtvogel [2014-03-23 20:19:28 +0000 UTC]

Yeah, I'm guessing my skin is sensitive to the sunlight. But, it's nothing too serious. I mean, it never fails when I'm outside for too long, and I sometimes get sunburned, but mostly, my skin starts to itch.  Which is why I wear clothing to cover most of my body. Now I love hoodies

I know, I could try asking my parents to take me to see a doctor, but knowing them, they won't take it *that* seriously, unless they see minor changes with my skin. Also, I have been hanging out indoors as much as possible for the past few years, just so I won't be out in the sun, and because of that, I'm paler than my family. So, I guess I am considered "fair-skinned". Maybe it's my own fault, or I do have a skin condition, but either way, yeah, it is safer for me to stay inside.





And, it's no biggy. It's only been a few months, but I'll probably take classes during the summer. I only avoided a semester because of too much stress.

And I don't really have a lot of friends. I think I have two or three friends, whom I keep in touch with. So, there's nothing to worry about.

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to Hatsubloo [2014-03-23 21:08:36 +0000 UTC]

I see. I don't mean to order you around but don't you think it would be better to see a doctor for your itching skin? It can't hurt and your parents should listen and take you to a doctor if you actually say you want to go. Your comment shows that this "condition" has been going on for years...

On the other hand, you say you avoided school because of stress. Stress can also be a factor for itching skin and overall sensitivity. If you start summer school and your stress-levels keeps piping up, you could also talk to a Doc and see, if the problem is physical or maybe psychological. I don't mean this as an offense; psychological problems don't imply that the persons concerned are sick in the head or too sensitive or other nonesense. (Because that IS nonesense!!) It just means there's stress and pressure too much for a single person to handle.

And finally - there's no need to have dozens of friends. A few real friends are more than enough for a person to feel happy and safe and protected. But they should be real friends!

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Hatsubloo In reply to Mondlichtvogel [2014-03-23 21:56:08 +0000 UTC]

Aw, I appreciate the concern But so far, I'm pretty healthy I mean, yeah...I do worry(a little too much perhaps) about my skin. Sometimes when I feel that something is different with my skin, I talk to my mother about it. I mean, when my hands got all rough, dry and itchy, she took me to see a dermatologist, but I knew it had to do with the cold weather. It happens every year *sigh*

But yeah, I think it's been a couple of years, since I realized the reaction from the sun, like the time I was in highschool, I believe, but I don't remember that far back, if I reacted the same as a child. Back then, I actually loved playing outside. So, I'm not sure.

I see....I've heard that college students experience sickness because they are stressed out, but I didn't know about that. But, I'm certain my conditions aren't happening because of school. If anything, it's only responsible for giving me stress.

And thanks, I am good with only a few friends. A larger group of people would only make it worse, because I don't do so well keeping friends. Every time I do, they don't last too long. They always move away or they forget about me.

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to Hatsubloo [2014-04-01 00:31:20 +0000 UTC]

Very well then. Your words show me that you are not taking this too lightly (as I feared before), but please keep checking your skin and see a dermatologist on a regular basis to STAY healthy. Some people can enjoy the sun and never see a negative reaction while others get sunburn more easily and should avoid long and unprotected sunbathing. Perhaps it's genetics and nothing can be done... Darn it, right?

Anyway, first and most important rule to be (and stay) happy and healthy is to love yourself, do the things you enjoy and avoid stuff and actions (AND persons) you don't enjoy and/or make you unhappy. Of course sometimes you must make compromises. I don't know a single person who jumps eagerly out of bed every morning and dances his way to school or work - but we must go anyway... Try and make your days as awesome as you can, laugh a lot and enjoy yourself. I noticed that positive emotions and behavior also affect diseases (like acne, dry and itchy skin, migraine, high blood pressure, red spots and so on) and make them better.

Why do you find it hard to keep friends? If they move away, you can't do anything about it. But what makes you say they forget about you? Please don't be offended, I'm not trying to hurt your feelings - but in most cases it is of the inactivity of the person itself, that friends eventually leave. I may be a bit intrusive right now (sorry) - but do you wait for them to call you and ask you out? Or do you call them on a regular basis? Are you interested in what they have to say? Are THEY interested in the stories you tell them? (That's important, otherwise you will quickly feel that they're only taking advantage of you) Do you often stay at home while they're out doing stuff? If yes, why? If you don't enjoy the same things they enjoy - why would you call them friends?

Okay, enough educational (and instructional) talk for now. I must sound like an old mother-hen to you. I hope you have a great day ahead of you and enjoy it to the fullest!

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Hatsubloo In reply to Mondlichtvogel [2014-04-01 01:44:26 +0000 UTC]

Thanks for two paragraphs above. I know we are complete strangers, and we hardly know each other, but I feel like we've become closest friends because of our talk. Thanks for showing concern and support for me  

And the thing about me having friends. Back then, around elementary up until middle school, I didn't have any way to contact my friends outside of school. I didn't have a cell phone or a social website to use, cause at my earlier age, I never thought about it. So today, it's much harder to search for old friends that moved away a long time ago. Believe me, I wish I could find them again, because they actually acknowledge me as a person they would like and hang out with.....But they're gone due to lack of information. And that's it for that part.

The other part about some people forgetting about me, happens quite a lot. It's mostly my own fault because I wasn't the type of person that was social. I didn't like talking to people that much. If I did meet someone, they would be nice to me and talk to me for a short time, then the next time I see them, they don't seem interested in talking to me at all.

Here's a big example: Where I live, we have this celebration every year and I had to get involved because I was forced too by my parents. I was grouped together with a bunch of other people close to my age, and we had to spend many months together as a whole group all the time. It was mandatory. So, after everything we've been through over those months, all of a sudden, they all just ignored me. I have most of them on FB, but not a single one of them, even acknowledges me, or even care to like a post I've put up. It's like I'm now invisible to them. I do try to get their attention, but not anymore. I'm not going to bother. The few friends I know are all I need over here

It's a pretty pathetic story, I know. But you can see why I don't do well keeping friends. I'm mostly on the site just for the games and silly posts :/

Another one happened to me and my cousin, and we were basically best friends growing up. We used to hang out all the time, but  now she has a smartass bitchy kinda attitude, and she pretty much made me dislike her more and more the times I see her.

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to Hatsubloo [2014-04-01 12:41:28 +0000 UTC]

You're very welcome, dear!

Yeah, I can see why it is kinda hard to track your old friends after they moved away... But isn't there a search-button on Facebook where you can enter the names of your old friends and see what the site brings up? After reading your text, I got the feeling you don't reconnect with them because it is actually impossible to find them... To be honest, I think deep down you're afraid they will be as denying as the current people you're dealing with. Therefore, you haven't even tried to find them (for real)... Don't be discouraged, I don't think they would reject the idea of getting in touch again. After all, they knew you and your good sides AND your quirks and still liked you, right?

I'm taking huge steps here and of course it is more than likely that I'm wrong, so please shut me up if I get too personal, annoying or intrusive.

Please never EVER say again that your loneliness is your own fault because you're not a social person. Everyone's a social person, absolutely EVERYONE. Of course, some are only happy when they're surrounded by a bunch of people 24/7, while others enjoy their solitude and only occasionally join a gathering or a party. And that is perfectly okay! If someone is not okay with you (or any other person) seeking solitude after a while, they can shove their resentment up their *****. Neither is your story pathetic. Please say that out loud! Nothing in your life, your decisions and on your person is antisocial, pathetic or unlikeable!

Being surrounded by many people and giving attention in every possible direction is emotionally exhausting (even more if it lasts long time periods). More sensitive persons with a powerfull imagination and a head full of thoughts and dreams are more easily "full" than others and NEED some time alone to gather their thoughts and impressions after get-togethers.
I figured pretty quickly that you're one of these persons. And I repeat: This is more than okay. Many people are (I am), and isn't that the reason why we are both here on an art-site? On here, many, MANY people feel the same way as we do. I'm not as afraid of beeing rejected as "weird" or "off my rocker" for sharing my thoughts on here, as I am in the "real world".

On the other hand - your example about the "mandatory" task you were forced to complete and the group you spend so much time with -- while reading it, I thought this must have been one of the crappiest experiences of your life... You gave me the impression that you didn't want to participate, didn't want to get to know the others, didn't want to get through with this thing and were quite relieved after it was over. This may have been the truth, but think about the signals you sent...
Many people prefer "easy" characters. Easy to talk to, easy to please, easy to persuade, easy to use.
You're not an easy character. It is tougher for you to connect with people because of your complicated character. Please don't be offended here, I think it is actually better to be complicated and complex, than easy and simple-minded.

Alas, complicated people have to put more effort into finding friends than easy people. It is actually YOU who must make these steps.
Not fair, I know.
Why do others don't have to lift so much as a finger and others keep throwing themselves at their feet?
But don't be deceived. They do work for their success. We just don't see it.

To be honest, I never found out how they actually did it. They were popular, I was not. Once I actually accepted that and moved on, I noticed (for the first time) that I was actually well liked. Nobody told me that. It was in their smiles, in the way they asked me things, helped me during sport-events and just being there to talk to. Occasionally. These people were never my bff's; I didn't share secrets with them, hung out regularly or asked them about every ever so tiny little thing. Thank goodness; it would have driven me mad otherwise...

And I have the feeling it would be very similar with you. I think you would soon tire of a noisy and brash friend who thinks he/she must share EVERYTHING with you. You would probably withdraw more and more, and this person would either follow and be a huge nuisance or feel rejected, insulted and hurt and leave you forever.
Shame is - much people are like that. Noisy and invasive with absolutely no concept of personal space and times one might wish to be alone. It is up to you to find the jewels underneath a horde of pigs.

As for your cousin: People change over time. Some for the better, some for the worse. This may have been the case here.
Also, and this happens with family-members too unfortunately, sometimes people search for "victims". Persons they can look down on and walk all over with words and actions. If you honestly can't remember being responsible for her turning away, than it is very likely that you didn't do anything wrong. She changed on her own. So if you see her next time, and she exhibits the bitchy behaviour -- go on, kick her ass!
It probably won't do to turn away and stay quiet. In most cases this only fuels their bad behaviour. So start being offensive!
Start by looking her up and down and ask if she gained weight. Sneer at her when she asks you the same. If that is actually the case, grin, spin around and tell her "Looks good on me though. I know, you wish you could say the same about yourself!" Then smile or giggle and enjoy her angry face. It's fun and it will put her in her place eventually.
Bullys are just insecure people themselves. And they ALWAYS pick victims they secretly believe are better than themselves.

Anyway - long story short:
1.) You are a nice, complex and mostly just misunderstood person. You are clever and fun to talk to.
2.) Forget about people who are only willing to spend time with you when you bend over backwards for them. That won't do and it will make you VERY unhappy over time.
3.) Your isolation weights you down. You seem to spend your time brooding, waiting for something (or someone) to happen to you. This goes so far that you're even experiencing physical disabilities. I'm pretty sure you have a skin-desease with or without bad mood, but heavy thoughts probably make it worse. (-:>
4.) You're playing it safe with waiting and then responding/reacting to the things people throw at you. This is actually a misconception, because you're giving them the opportunity of the "first step". These first steps can be good, but they are way more often mean or at least uncomfortable for the recipient. This makes you afraid and even more isolated. It's a vicious circle. And only you can break yourself out of it. Other people can try, but they can only show you the way. You must walk this way out of your shell yourself.

Go on, do some "first steps" of your own! Is the sun shining where you live? Get on your bicycle, drive a circle around your neighborhood and smile at every person you meet on the way. You don't have to stop and talk to them (it's not easy to find a topic like that and an awkward silence is something that would likely unsettle you), instead keep smiling and keep driving.
As soon as the people start smiling back at you, you will feel better. I promise. The fresh air is good for your health and a quick tour around "the block" is not enough to worsen your skin-condition.

What I mean to tell you is: Just start doing stuff. Stuff you enjoy and feel comfortable with. Others will notice the change in your behaviour and will approach you again.
Just start. Don't THINK ABOUT starting till your head rotates - just DO IT.

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Hatsubloo In reply to Mondlichtvogel [2014-04-01 20:32:40 +0000 UTC]

Firstly, OMG that is freakin long!

Second, I know what you're talking about. And I'm sorry, but I have to tell you that your wrong about me being afraid. It's not that I'm scared of being rejected over a site; honestly, it would be good enough if I was able to find the specific people at least. And if I could, I want to be able to say to them, "Hey, what's up? Remember me?" Though, I know it won't happen. Again, with the lack of info on them, I think it is impossible. Even when I'm searching for them on FB, and I've tried a couple times already, there is just this long list of people with the same names, I just had to give up.

You make excellent points in those few paragraphs above I guess we understand each other about the topic of having friends than I thought. I just thought I was a loner and was bad at having friends. And when it comes to meeting new people, I always act quiet around them. But believe me, if I start to like someone and feel comfortable around them, then they start seeing the crazy, fun side of me. Sometimes it takes a little bit of time to scratch the surface to finally know that person, you know? I may not be the type of person that makes a lot of friends, but I still manage to make one friend at a time

And I have to say you're wrong about the mandatory thing. I had a fun experience with those people. At first, I wasn't into it, but that changed quickly. The parties weren't that great, but I still enjoyed them and I had fun with everyone in the celebration and the parade. OH GOD THE PARADE. Don't get me started on that.

It was afterwards, that I started being disappointed. Since we were all forced to hang out all the time, until it ended. Like I said, I stopped caring, but I will miss those times we had fun.

Oh trust me, after all the years my cousin walked all over me, I ain't going to take her shit anymore. She used to mistreat me while we were teens, but I grew older and wiser than her. She used to pick on my little sister too, more than me, and it pissed me off. She may not do that anymore, but I still hold it against her. Every time she is at my place, I act hostile towards her. The more I treat her that way, the more unwelcome she felt. So yeah, I hate her now. I want nothing to do with her. We do talk, but only if I need her for something, because that's what families do for each other. But just because we're family, doesn't mean we're friends.

I really like all the helpful advice you've been giving me. Your words are filling me with positivity and it makes me feel good about myself as a person.

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to Hatsubloo [2014-04-04 16:37:47 +0000 UTC]

Oh gee! Firstly, I need to apologize to you! After reading my text again and then your answer I realised that my comment has been rash and judging - something I certainly didn't intend it to be.
I jumped to conclusions here without proper knowledge of so many things in your life and character. I'm sorry.

I don't have a Facebook-account; so I don't really know how this site works. I just thought you enter the name in the search-bar and find the person you're looking for almost immediately after.
I shouldn't have said you never really tried without knowing what I'm talking about...

It's great to hear (read) that you had fun during that summer and didn't spend your time alone or always two steps behind the others (like I must admit I originally thought... Not because you mentioned ever doing this, but I used to be like that...) Sometimes people just drift apart; there's nothing we can do about it. I lost track of a lot of people too since childhood, but new people stepped into my life and became just as precious to me as old (lost) friends were.

Also, the way you're dealing with your cousing now? Hell yes! It's awful that she was mistreating you and your younger sister; I hope she feels unwelcome and out of place every time she visits your family!

I guess I just put you in my place and wanted to give advice how to make it better. I'm sorry; I should have known better than to peg you as someone you are not.  

Anyway, thank your for your really nice and understanding words and your encouragement! It means a lot that you don't seem to be offended.

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Hatsubloo In reply to Mondlichtvogel [2014-04-04 18:15:40 +0000 UTC]

It's okay. I'm not offended or anything by your conclusions. I tend to do that also, but don't like sharing it. This is why we are having this conversation now, so we can better understand each other and our problems. I can see why you thought searching friends on FB was easy, even though you didn't have a account. Believe me, I thought the same too. I ended up being disappointed because it's more complex than I thought it would be.

And yes, It was a fun experience. Would I ever like to do something like that again, though? Absolutely. It gives me something to do almost every day, and I get to socialize with new people. But I know it will be the same outcome after the event, so I won't have too much expectations of those people be my closest friends. I will say once more, that I won't bother if that happens.

Yeah, I try my best. I like to act mean to my cousin, but don't want it to be too obvious. If she comes over, and we are acting civilized with each other, than that isn't a problem, but if she starts something that I don't like, than all hell will break loose. But knowing her, she will have her tall tree of a boyfriend( her fiancee) to come to her protection. Yeah, that won't do shit for her, I can tell you that -_-

And don't worry about it. It was nice that you gave me advice, which I can understand and try taking it into consideration. And don't feel ashamed about it. We are friends and that is what friends are for. We help each other out

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to Hatsubloo [2014-04-09 21:44:13 +0000 UTC]

Phew! Once again, it's good to hear you are not offended and can relate a bit to my "conclusion-jumping"...
Facebook seems to be more difficult than I ever thought... On the other hand, with more than 900 million people already using Facebook, there is just no way to find persons who share common last names and such.

I hope you will join such an event again and will have tons of fun there, too! Some of the activities I did (voluntary and not so voluntary) were pretty amazing, others were a complete disaster. I guess it depends on my way of approaching the subject and if the people around are fun and welcoming. It's also impotant that the subject itself is fun and not unnecessary or awful.

Your course with your cousin is probably for the best. :/ Personally, I detest bullys and try to always find a way to let them feel how unwelcome they are. But sometimes my intentions backfired and made an enemy and bully out of me...

Awww, you sweet person, you! I wish I could take you out for an ice-cream or a pie or something.

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Hatsubloo In reply to Mondlichtvogel [2014-04-09 23:16:25 +0000 UTC]

Of course not! Why would I? You just made some speculations, a few were right and a few were wrong, but that's all No need to feel like you are offending me. I don't mind it. It's kinda funny actually ^.^
And you are right about Facebook being difficult. Over a million people use FB all the time, it's impossible to find someone specific.

Definitely I hope I can get involved into more events in the future, and maybe even meet new people. I can't guarantee that things will go well and fun for me, but I'll try to enjoy myself as best I can, and be subtle when it comes to making new friends.

I hate bullies too. I really hate how someone like my cousin who used to be my best friend changed so much, and I wish all the bad times between us never happened. She just forces me to start hating her since she gets away with bossing me around all the time, giving me her smart ass attitude. At my age, I won't take her shit anymore!!!! I can promise you that

awww, thank you, and so are you <3 You are a lovely person. I'm glad I got to know you better. And you're too kind offering such tasty treats....If only we didn't live too far apart though :/

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to Hatsubloo [2014-04-13 12:53:31 +0000 UTC]

I can understand that you only feel hate for your cousin now. I once had someone bullying and torturing me. I didn't do anything bad to her. We figured we couldn't get along and I contented myself with ignoring her. But apparently that was my mistake, she gathered other people - people I actually got along well with - and started spreading the hate. After a few month I ended up isolated and afraid to say or do anything wrong. My every step was methodically watched and scathingly remarked. I got scolded for doing something wrong while others did the exact same mistake - and the bullys helped and reassured them. It was pure hell.

However. This was years ago, and now there is not a chance in hell I will allow any situation to slip my control like that ever again.
Like you with your cousin, I don't see her too often now. But if, I WILL make her regret everything she's done to me...

Ah, but bad thoughts aside, thanks for your words and don't worry, maybe you will at some point travel to Germany, or I will end up in the USA. I don't know yet, were my path will lead me.

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Hatsubloo In reply to Mondlichtvogel [2014-04-13 20:08:15 +0000 UTC]

Sorry to hear what you've been through. It really sucks when some people decide to gang up on you like that. I actually had a friend who knew someone that hated her, and she got all her friends and boyfriend to turn on her too. She really went into a deep depression after that. And she started home schooling because of it. I don't know what's been going on with her, but I know she's still okay as of today.

Yeah, I've dealt with people who've picked on me before as a kid. But I always tattled on them, and they get in trouble. I didn't have a bully, but my cousin does count as one, since she was one year older than me, and we had to do things her way. I hate her for the things she's done, but I don't hate her completely.....At least not yet. It all really depends on how are relationship will be like in the future. I am hoping that she changes as a more responsible, caring and respectful adult. But if she doesn't change at all. Then I am soooo done with her ass.

Traveling to germany sounds exciting, though expensive. IDK, maybe it will happen someday. That would be cool if we were ever to meet in person. And if we do....We get to have this

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to Hatsubloo [2014-04-20 21:00:38 +0000 UTC]

Aaaww, it's okay! I learned a lot about myself and human nature during this time and now it's easier for me to distinguish friends from enemies and prevent situations like that already in the early stage.
I'm also sorry to hear about your friend and I'm glad you found a way to keep your own bullys off your back.

It's sad that people can't just get along with each other. And if that is impossible, why not just ignore the other person? Is that so hard? What does people drive to pick on and almost destroy other people, just because they don't like them?
Alas, we can't change the world, we just want (and will) live in peace.

Yeah, I guess a trip to Europe is not going to be cheap, but there are some places worth visiting.
And yeah, ice-cream would be awesome!

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Hatsubloo In reply to Mondlichtvogel [2014-04-20 22:00:29 +0000 UTC]

Yeah, it will be easier to know who your friends are, and who aren't, especially when your older. It sucks since it occurs more often with teen That's when you really feel like a victim. I'm just glad I didn't go through such drama.

I know what you mean. Why can't people just get along?....I actually think that every bully just need a reason to feel better about themselves, having to pick on others that did absolutely nothing to them. It makes them the bigger person I guess. In reality, there will never be peace in the schools. Bullying will continue to be a issue and I feel like the school system actually supports it. Well, it doesn't really have to be about school, it can happen anywhere really. But, bullying is more common in schools.

I always wanted to travel to different places If I do get the chance and get money, I'll go to europe first. Happy Easter btw~

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Mondlichtvogel In reply to Hatsubloo [2014-04-22 21:20:12 +0000 UTC]

Oh thank you, Happy Easter to you too!

AND Happy Birthday to you, I hope you have a wonderful day and got lots of awesome presents!

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Hatsubloo In reply to Mondlichtvogel [2014-04-22 23:57:46 +0000 UTC]

Thank you! You're too kind, and I certainly will

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